I live near a large Victorian cemetery full of winding paths, ponds, and beautiful trees in addition to the gravestones you’d expect. There are grand mausoleums and granite tombs set into a hillside, statues of weeping angels, and a Civil War monument.
It is really as much a park for our neighborhood as it is a burial ground, though it is still very much in use for new graves. People jog and walk there all the time, and many a neighborhood child has learned to ride a bike on the quiet inner paths that are largely free of cars.
I think I’ve probably walked or biked every path, road, and walkway. Yet I still see stones I’ve never noticed before. Often a brisk walk will become a lengthy meander as I find myself stopping to read names and dates and stories. There are so many stories, it kind of takes my breath away. Some carved into stone slabs for all to read, others suggested by dates and proximity. Other stories are entirely made up, flights of fancy in my head inspired by a particular gravestone or family grouping.
The poem below is based on one of the latter. A pair of stones caught my eye one day and the names got stuck in my head. Wandering in this cemetery reminds me how many generations have called this city, my street, and even my own house, home. It’s humbling, and also wonderful to think of the others who have loved this place the way we do.
Velonia Bailey & Ebenezer True
Velonia Bailey and Ebenezer True
have markers of brilliant white,
so bright they almost glow
in the shade of the trees
For a moment I think
they must be brand new
But softened edges
and pitting show their age
If I touched them they’d feel sugary,
the corrosive rain of New England
eating slowly away at marble
that once felt like soft glass
Ebenezer has a faint tinge
of mossy green along his edge.
You might not notice it
if Velonia weren’t so pristine
Their stones are white marvels
amidst the gray slates and
speckled granites, and yet
it’s their names that make me linger
Who would not wish to know
Velonia and Ebenezer, to count
two souls with such resplendent
names amongst their friends
I imagine spying her across
the crowd gathered at the grange hall,
standing on tiptoe, waving my arm
above my head to catch her eye.
We’d push our way
through the crush and embrace,
ignoring the jostling and the heat
She would smell of linden blossoms
She would hold me at arms length
and her eyes would crinkle,
as she leaned in and whispered a bit
of gossip, a shared joke, in my ear
Foreheads close together,
we’d laugh,
though not unkindly,
at some small folly or vanity
Then I’d ask after Ebenezer
who had perhaps been unwell
Is he here with you? Is he recovered?
Oh, yes, certainly, she’d say with a laugh,
He’s well enough for horseshoes, at any rate
And at that moment the clang
of metal on metal would sound
through the open side door
And we’d turn as one, hand in hand,
toward the sunlight, stepping out
onto the granite slab and down
to the grassy yard below, to cheer him on
Cemeteries in general, and this one in particular have turned up in a number of my poems and posts here. Here’s some additional reading for you if you also enjoy a wander around an old graveyard.
Thanks for reading, Everyone!
Oh, this was wonderful! It reminded me of the 4th Anne Shirley book - Anne of Windy Willows (or Poplars in some editions), where she would sometimes walk in a cemetery thinking up beautiful stories.
This is beautiful, Tara! I love a good wander through an old graveyard — so many stories hanging in the air. You perfectly capture that feeling of being swept into the past.